I have been a little down lately and really throwing myself
a pity party. The daily struggles sometimes become very overwhelming and though
I promise myself not to allow issues or people to bring me down I have failed
with that miserably recently. Today Cam completely helped me get out of my funk
and reminded me of what is really important....which is him, Peyton and daddy.
This morning was “morning with mom” at his school. Basically
it is a little breakfast in the cafeteria to celebrate Mother’s day and Cam was
so excited about it being just he and I. Last night we talked about what they
were going to have for breakfast and he said “mommy I don’t like the donuts
they’re going to have, can we go to Dunkin’ Donuts and bring our own?” How
could I say no? He was so excited about our morning and of course so was I. So
this morning we both woke up extra early and headed to Dunkin’ Donuts. We went
inside to pick out which ones he wanted and half way up to the counter he
freezes and looks at me and says, “mommy, look they have heart shaped ones just
for mommy’s! Can I buy you one?” Completely melted my heart. He thought about
me, he didn’t need anyone to tell him what to say, he did it all on his own.
HUGE step for my little man! So when we got to the counter he tells the young
lady working “I would like to buy my mommy that heart donut please. It’s our
special breakfast at my school and my mommy is my date.” Seriously kiddo, you
are winning huge brownie points here. So we ordered the donuts and off we
headed to the school. He held my hand the entire way to the cafeteria,
something that is big for him. He can be very cuddly sometimes, but it is
always on his terms, which I have learned to be ok with and just enjoy when he
is. We sit down and start to have breakfast together and he turns to me and says,
“mommy, I love you and I think you are the best mommy in the world.” Tears
(happy ones finally) start to come and he gets very worried…I could see it in
his face. I tried to explain to him that I was crying happy tears but to him
when someone cries it is always because they are sad. He said, “I think it’s
kinda silly that you’re crying when you’re happy mommy. You’re supposed to just
smile not cry.” Well kiddo your mommy is a complete emotional loon and she
cries pretty easily. Those were thoughts in my head…no need to confuse him any
more than I already had. We sat there together and laughed and played thumb
wars. It was the perfect way to start the morning. There were no meltdowns, no
arguing, nothing but laughs, smiles and happy tears. It was time to head to
class and as I am walking with him to his class he says, “ya know mommy I
wonder why God thought I was so special that he had wanted to give me
Asperger’s.” Can we stop throwing mommy for these crazy loops kiddo, please?!
So there at school we sit down on the bench in front of his classroom and talk
about how special he is Asperger’s and all. This time though it was a really
good talk. Not one I had planned on having at his school on a bench, but who
cares…it was good. He hugged me good-bye with a huge smile on his face headed
into class.
Pick up time came and he was once again happy. He and Peyton
decided they wanted to wash my car as an early Mother’s day present. So as soon
as we got home they put their bathing suits on and we headed outside to wash my
car. We all laughed, I chased them around with the water hose, which they loved
and we just had fun. An afternoon of just smiles, laughter and fun. Today was
my Mother’s day because seeing Cam smile all day, hearing him laugh, watching
he and Peyton playing in the water and giggling their little hearts out, having
a talk with him that went better than I could have imagined and not one
meltdown…for me it was the perfect day.
Today reminded me that though there are days that can and will get me
down or days where I feel as though I will never win the fights I am up against
for Cam…there are days like today that make all of that disappear.
Happy Mother’s day to all of you amazing mama’s out there! I
hope all of you have the kind of day I had today because all of you deserve it!
<3
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