Basketballs, laughs, smiles and tears are the best words to
describe our Saturday night. We went to see the Harlem Globetrotters last night
for the first time and the kiddos were so very excited. Cam had watched them on
TV and thought they were hilarious, so when I told him Grandma Judy got us
tickets to go see them he was beyond excited. Peyton squealed with excitement
because he was so excited and daddy was pretty excited to. You get the picture
we were all excited. My mom had not only bought us tickets to the game but she
bought us tickets to have one on one time with all of the team before the game.
So all five of us headed out ready for a night of fun with the Globetrotters.
The pre-game festivities were amazing. Both kiddos got to
play a little basketball with the players, learn how to spin a basketball on
their finger, get their pictures taken with each of the players and have their
basketballs autographed by all of them. To say my kiddos were on cloud nine
would be an understatement. They had huge smiles on their faces and couldn’t
stop telling all of us how awesome it was. Cam was most excited to be able to
bounce the basketball with them and decided he was going to be a Globetrotter
one day. Of course first he will have to actually have the coordination to play
the game, but for last night he was ready!
The game started and Cam lit up. We had seats on the court
and Cam felt like a superstar. Once it started all I heard was his adorable
little laugh and see his cheeks huge from his wonderful smile. He was loving
the show. He and Peyton kept laughing together and pointing out all the funny
parts, which to them was everything. When the players would do one of their
amazing tricks Cam would say, “WOW, look at that mommy!” or “Oh my goodness
that was AMAZING!” I loved the show, but hearing and watching him enjoy the
show so much was incredible.
After half time Cam went and sat on daddy’s lap. He was
getting a little tired and I believe the stimulation was starting to get a
little overwhelming. I can always tell when this happening by a look he gets
and a way he starts to act. We asked him if he was ready to go and he said no,
that he wanted to stay and watch the rest of the show. So, the game started
back up and I heard his laughs again, not as loud but they were there. Then all
of a sudden that went away. One of the players was joking around doing a skit
and picked Cam up from daddy’s lap and went running away with him up in the air.
Cam’s face went from a brief smile to complete terror and tears. He was
completely petrified and didn’t understand what was going on. The player
finally realized that in what seemed like forever but was probably only a
matter of seconds and put Cam down and he came running into my lap. He was
shaking and crying uncontrollably. It completely crushed me. Most kids want to
be a part of the show and I think had the circumstances been different and Cam
been prepared he would have loved it. But, that didn’t happen; he wasn’t
prepared and now was meltdown time.
The crying lasted for a little while and the shaking lasted
longer. But, I was so proud of him because he didn’t lose it completely though
I could tell he wanted to. He sat there crying and I kept trying to console
him, hugging him and pointing out funny parts of the show to get his mind off
of what had just happened. He finally started to smile, tears were still coming
but he was smiling. Then he started to hug me, watch the show a little and I
started to hear his laugh. I knew I had him back and he was settling down. We
all offered to leave but he was content on my lap watching the rest of the show
and wanted to stay as long as I promised him that wouldn’t happen again.
I sat there fighting back tears because one, I felt horrible
for him, he was so scared, petrified in fact. But, then I was so proud of him
because though I could tell and feel in him that he wanted to completely
meltdown right there, he didn’t. He cried and was shaking yes, but he didn’t
fall on the floor screaming and completely meltdown. Others in the audience
laughed at him, one lady even made a comment that fortunately for her, my mom,
Bryan and I were more concerned about Cam that we didn’t say anything back to
her. It broke my heart that he went from completely being on cloud nine, loving
everything and smiling bigger than I have seen in awhile to complete tears and
trembling.
On the way home though he said he didn’t just like the show
but he loved it. He said “I really loved it mommy, I just really didn’t like it
when that man picked me up and ran away with me. I was very scared and just
didn’t want to leave you.” Again, even though that part of the show was a bad
experience we had a breakthrough. He explained a little bit of how he felt,
which is a big moment for him. It might seem like nothing, but trust me it was
huge. This time the car was dark so my tears fell and no one knew or saw so I
felt it was ok. I was proud of him, beyond proud and I was sad for him all the
same.
Yes, I know some will say well my child would have been
scared too. I realize that neurotypical children have fears too and I am not
trying to belittle that in any way. Cam’s fears are different and his reactions
to these fears are very different. Him holding it together and not completely
melting down last night was huge and is a night that will forever be in my
memory. So…..last night was night of many memories for all of us.
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